My name is Devon I’m a 30 year old bachelor that is a CEO of my Very Own Travel Agency . I recently broke up with my x-girlfriend of five years. It’s been a year since we split … but it wasn’t because either one of us cheated. I have a very dominant personality and I’m that guy that likes to flirt. She’s a quite girl, not very talkative but sweet and caring. I love that about her but she keeps me balanced what should I do to get my lady back? After I chose to walk away “
: Hello Devon ,
First off I would like to congratulate you on being one of very few guys in there late 20’s early 30’s who’s not ashamed on asking a women her advice ,on getting another women back into your life .Simple but major step most males your age wouldn’t even consider because for you its “Prime time” …but to answer your question , is easy to say you want someone back after they’ve been absent in your life for a period of time and your use to their presence. what you have to ask yourself is besides balance, where do you see your self with women? Is she someone you will compartmentalize as a friend or is she a potential wife .I say wife because giving your stature and your need for her return with great thought in due time you should be putting a ring on it , if its worth the fight …I’m just saying . you guys were together for five years this shouldn’t be hard .I’m sure you both matured and developed some type of stability in your lives but one thing that never changes is potential no matter how old you guys get . You seem like complete opposites and one thing I do admire is that you understand you need her for balance . Are you willing to work on this relationship ? And is she willing to do the same ? what does she have going on in her life ? career , personal and leisure wise …you must know these things before approaching the situation . But most off all you must know what you want . Honesty is the best policy , be patient be assertive and don’t beat around the bush say exactly what you want . Use that dominant personality and do something out of the ordinary. Romance at 25 isn’t nearly the same at 30! pull some strings Mr. CEO and plan a memorable night. before hand do your research , open up that line for communication and stand your ground now matter how many jabs are being thrown at you …Cause after one year and you wanna return ! Honey you know us women are good for it ! . Stay consistent and show her that you’ll work for it . Trust me you wont be working for too long .
Best of luck
~Chyna Saduah White